Ny oldest childrens' father has recently had a child with a woman who used meth, cocaine and god knows what else while she was pregnant with this baby.We were contacted by CPS about possible adoption. I am all for it but now CPS is claiming because I have 5 children already I cannot give the care this child needs. He has no brain damage and did very well with our visits, and social worker has not been there once to see us interact.my ex-husband wants me to raise this child and my kids are devasted knowing their little brother might be raised by strangers. Are there any studies that show how these babies do with large families?