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Listen Up: A First Step to Protecting Teensby: Jan RichterOnly by knowing how kids are doing in school, how they feel about their schoolwork, how they are spending their free time and with whom, can we begin to identify those teens most likely to take risky chances or follow pathways that endanger them. This is the key "take-home lesson" of Protecting Teens: Beyond Race, Income and Family Structure the latest report using data from National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health (Add Health) Survey. While the findings tell us we cannot rely on the quick answers, there is good news. What really matters—trouble with schoolwork, unstructured free time, unwise choice of friends—are factors we can do something about. But the findings also point to a troubling paradox. The kids who need adults the most are the very kids we are most likely to ignore—the kids hanging out at the mall, the kids skipping school and acting rowdy on the bus, the ones roughhousing on the street. These are the kids most in danger of turning to high-risk behaviors—alcohol use, tobacco use, suicidal thoughts and attempts, sexual intercourse or involvement with weapons (guns or knives). If we are going to protect teens from serious risks and keep them safe, we adults are going to have to take the time and effort to get to know them a lot better. But it seems so few adults really like teenagers. Most of us can easily remember moments from our own adolescence that make us cringe. Maybe that explains our impulse to shy away from kids who look like trouble. But if we expect teens at most risk to change their attitudes and shift gears, our first stop should be a look in the mirror. What 90,000 Teens Tell Us Dr. Robert W. Blum, lead investigator of "Protecting Teens," summarized the main findings of his analysis of the Add Health data: "How young people do at school and what they do with their free time are the most important determinants for every risky behavior we studied—regardless of whether they are rich or poor; white, black or Hispanic; or come from one- or two-parent families. ... The truth is these demographic factors explain very little, with predictive power ranging from 0.5 percent (for suicidal risks) to 9.7 percent for sexual intercourse among 7th and 8th graders ... It isn't that race is irrelevant, the point is that race alone explains very little in behaviors. Are Adults Listening? Surely the first adults that need to pay more attention to teenagers are their parents. Parents need to respect adolescent struggles for independence but also to respond to their need for stability, connection and continuity. Indeed, a feeling of closeness or connectedness with a parent was a key protective factor identified in the survey. But parents alone are not the answer. Those of us not raising teenagers, or those who have already weathered the storm, cannot turn our backs on parents any more than we can turn our backs on teens themselves. If we claim to be a child-centered society, as Dr. Blum pointed out, why do we allow work to overrule parenting duties and at the same time make little provision for places in the community where teens can gather in the presence of caring, attentive adults? If we know teens will "get into trouble" if left on their own, why do we allow them to flounder in communities with unsafe neighborhoods and few resources designed to nurture them? Most Teens Play It Safe
Not every adult can, or should, become a mentor, "Big Brother," coach or role model. But anyone can advocate for more investment in youth development workers, learning centers, or youth training, arts, and employment services. We can support faith community programs, teen centers, community schools, or neighborhood programs that bring kids and adults together. Those adults who are most comfortable in the worlds of business, politics, government or community action can push for corporate donations, political support, government funds and community chests to pay rent, salaries and supplies for after-school programs, YMCAs or Boys and Girls Clubs. Safe, well-maintained schools, up-to-date teaching materials and well-trained teachers should be considered bare-minimum requirements in every community, not some unattainable dream. Where is the political and community will to make sure our kids have safe places and caring adults to protect them when they are most in need? We should not rest until we can say that we have them here, in my community and in every community. Before we say our kids have failed us, let us make sure we have not failed our kids.
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